Male impotence - all your
questions answered
What
causes male impotence and premature ejaculation?
For many, many years impotence has been a taboo subject in polite
circles. After all, you are even less likely to tell your best pal
you cannot perform in bed than youare to tell him he has B.O.!
No-one wants to be the butt of pub or club gossip. Impotence can breed
many fears and anxieties and among these is the fear of ridicule.
The reason, no doubt, is that the sufferer feels humiliated and that
his masculinity has been eroded. As a result, in many cases he simply
gives up any attempt to lead a normal sex life.
Impotence is perhaps the least openly discussed yet most privately
feared condition any man can suffer from. This is very sad - not only
because it can irretrievably harm what was once a happy, loving marriage
or even stop a potential relationship from developing - but because
the majority of cases can be treated highly successfully.
A surprisingly large number of men suffer from the condition - which
can be summed up as the inability to obtain an erection which is hard
enough to achieve penetration or to maintain an erection for long enough
to satisy his partner.
One in 10 of adult
men
It has been estimated that one in ten of adult men suffer from persistent
erectile dysfunction - and that means a total of around 3 million in
Britain. Furthermore, there is a considerable increase in its occurrence
- to around 40% - after the age of 50.
The sufferer is obviously not alone, has nothing to feel ashamed of
- and should not be frightened of seeking specialist help.
It was once thought that in 90% of cases the primary cause of impotence
was psychological but research has show that in over 75% of cases physiological
or organic problems are at its root - and these are frequently aggravated
by psychological factors such as 'performance anxiety'.
Illnesses which may affect erections include diabetes, multiple sclerosis,
spinal tumours or injuries, poor ciculation, kidney or liver failure,
thyroid deficiency, heart conditions and major pelvic surgery.
Drugs can cause
erectile problems
Certain drugs, when consumed in large doses, can also cause erectile
problems and these include alcohol, nicotine, 'hard' drugs such as
cocaine and heroin, amphetamines, tranquilisers, sleeping pills and
anti-depressants and certain tablets prescribed for blood pressure,
heart conditions and peptic ulcers.
Moderate consumption of alcohol and nicotine may also cause impotence
in men who come into the 'high risk' category because of medical problems.
There are also cases where impotence is caused by leaking blood vessels
which prevent the penis from becoming erect because the blood is being
drained out of it faster than it is being pumped in.
This can be corrected by a simple operation but further specialised
treatment may be necessary for a short time to help the sufferer overcome
performance anxiety.
Lack of confidence
or 'lack of use'
A considerable number of impotent men, however, do not suffer from
any clinical problems. Among these, the most common causes are likely
to be lack of confidence or 'lack of use'.
A young man who feels sexually insecure may fail at his first attempt
to have intercourse. The next time he finds himself wondering how things
are going to go. And if he fails again he will start to worry about
his virility with a resulting lack of confidence.
He may also be afraid that the girl with whom he attempted to have
sex will 'kiss and tell' and that he will become an object of fun among
her friends.
As a result, he may be too frightened to try again. Yet the chances
that there is anything clinically wrong with him are slight - he simply
fears failure.
Hormone replacement
therapy
A similar kind of fear can affect the middle-aged or older man who
has not been sexually active for some years. He may be divorced or
widowed or simply party to a marriage from which the fire has gone
because the relationship has become tired in the nicest possible way
- and sexual activity has gradually diminished.
The latter may encounter performance problems is his wife is prescribed
Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT), a treatment which is being increasingly
recommended for middle-aged women.
They go on this treatment for a variety of reasons, the most common
being to ease symptoms of the menopause and to prevent the 'brittle
bone syndrome' which affects many women as they age.
And in many cases an unexpected side effect is a greatly increased
sexual appetite!
Failure tends to breed
failure
The husband often finds it difficult to respond and the more anxious
he becomes about his performance the worse things get. Fear, anxiety
and worry are all negative factors which engender frustration and failure
tends to breed failure.
The man who, through divorce or widowhood, has not had a sexual relationship
for some years may find himself with the same problem when he eventually
meets someone with whom he desires to form a deep relationship. If
his first few attempts at love-making end in failure his self-confidence
will suffer a big blow. And as a result of the erectile function 'going
wrong' it could well stay wrong because of the psychological hang-ups
caused - unless appropriate treatment is sought.
Impotence is certainly more common in older men, but the fact that
you are getting on in years does not mean that you have no alternative
but to accept it. Whether you are young, middle-aged or elderly, half
of your problem is facing up to it and then seeking specialist help
from a reputable clinic. One with a proven track record which has now
helped over ten thousand men resume a normal sex life.
What causes premature
ejaculation?
Impotence is not the only male sexual problem to cause heartache and
distress. A considerable number of men also suffer from premature ejaculation
(PE) - one of the most common sexual dysfunctions in men.
When a man suffers this condition ejaculation occurs before, during
or very shortly after penetration and as a result both he and his partner
suffer worry and frustration. Men with PE often shy away from sexual
contact altogether, but in the majority of cases they can be helped
to achieve a satisfactory love life.
The causes of PE can be psychological or physical and in the main
two specific groups are likely to be affected - the young and sexually
inexperienced and the man in his middle years.
Young men generally suffer what is known as Primary PE. They may have
been born with a very short latent period between sexual contact and
ejaculation occurring, but anxiety can also be a cause, particularly
if the young man suspects that his genital organs are smaller than
the norm. Psychological factors of a certain type of upbringing can
also be the root of the problem.
Where the middle aged man is concerned, Secondary PE can start to
manifest itself shortly after he has already noticed that the quality
of his erections is receding. This can be a sign of the onset of impotence.
He will be very distressed about this state of affairs, but his dual
problem can be treated highly successfully and so can the primary condition
suffered by the younger man. The first step is to seek specialist help,
and the sooner the better.
Restoring the joy of
sex to your life
Over the years a number of treatments have become available to rectify
the problem of male impotence. And each has been developed and improved
with time. You may have read elsewhere about hormonal treatments, vaso-active
tablets, injection therapy, medicated patches, mechanical aids and
psychotherapy.
In their own way each of these treatments has been shown to be effective
to a greater or lesser extent. The important consideration, which the
Central Potency Clinic recognises, is that any particular treatment
for a man - and his partner - must be 'tailor-made'.
This is why our medical and counselling staff will take into account
your own particular circumstances. Then, in agreement with you, prescribe
a course of treatment specifically designed for your own needs.
New and safe ways of dealing with male impotence and premature ejaculation
were introduced into Britain in 1986. The pioneering work was carried
out by our clinics, whose doctors have now helped over ten thousand
men resume a normal sex life.
The most experienced
medical team in Europe
When considering the treatment, you can feel confident that you will
be attended to by the most experienced medical team in Europe.
Should you seek treatment at our clinics you will first be seen by
a counsellor who will take details of your medical history. This information
will then be assessed by a doctor who specialises in the treatment
of impotence.
The doctor will check your circulation, blood pressure and pulses.
He will also listen to your heart and lungs, test your central nervous
system and examine your abdomen.
Following appropriate diagnosis,the doctor will explain the options
available to you and, further to discussions, show you how to use the
treatment. Afterwards you will be able to continue with it in the comfort
and privacy of your own home.
You will be surprised how quickly you see and feel results. And from
then on you will be in full control of your own sex life, and able
to achieve an erection every time you want to make love.
What's more, the treatment available from our clinics not only has
a proven track record - it is safer than Aspirin and patients are usually
agreeably surprised to discover that costs are a great deal less than
they expect.
Many patients find
they can achieve spontaneous erections
You will see the doctor again after a period of four weeks and, on
the basis of your progress report to him, he will be able to adjust
the strength of your treatment to ensure the best possible results.
And after a period of time, many patients will find they can achieve
spontaneous erections.
One of our consultants finds that in very many cases the ability to
lead an absolutely normal sex life is achieved within a matter of months,
with the patient no longer having to rely on any form of treatment
to produce an erection.
"On the other hand, where men with medical problems such as diabetes,
high blood pressure, arterio-sclerosis and Parkinson's disease are
concerned impotence may be related to the debilitating condition," he
says.
"Those in this group are likely to have to continue treatment
indefinitely. But there is absolutely no reason why they should not
enjoy a full and satisfying sex life."
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